wear the trousers Antonyms

obey be subordinate be a subordinate be compliant be deferential be docile be obedient be the submissive partner do what someone else wants have a subordinate role play a secondary role be submissive be passive be servile to quitclaim conform to knuckles eat out of someone's hand play second fiddle be controlled by do what one is told do what someone says come to heel act in accordance with take a backseat