What you're blaming yourself for is being who you are. And that's no one's fault and nothing you can change. Cassandra Clare
You can't keep blaming yourself. Just blame yourself once, and move on." Homer Simpson. Matt Groening
Any form of measuring yourself by the unkind action of another towards you is like looking into a badly fractured mirror... and then blaming yourself for the shattered image you see therein. Guy Finley