find oneself
Verb
Meaning
accept and make use of one's personality, abilities, and situation
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Obsessional does not necessarily mean sexual obsession, not even obsession for this, or for that in particular; to be an obsessional means to find oneself caught in a mechanism, in a trap increasingly demanding and endless.
I sometimes wonder if the inability to find oneself makes one seek oneself in other people, in characters.
To be an ignorant man, to posses nothing but a fragile word, to find oneself as if relying upon darkness and nothingness: that is the position from which one must be constantly setting out.
To find oneself in tight breeches.
My son went to Berkeley to find himself