No one heals himself by wounding another. Ambrose
God Himself heals the proud. This means that inner sorrows (by which pride is healed) are sent to us by God, for the proud man will not suffer anything from others. But the humble person will endure everything, and will always say, 'I deserve this.' Ambrose of Optina
Often the Lord heals vainglory by dishonor. John Climacus
Better a lie which heals than a truth which wounds. Czech Proverb
God heals and the doctor has the thanks. Italian Proverb
A wounded head can be treated and heals, but a wounded heart never heals. Sicilian Proverb