if you see what I mean
Meaning
if you see what I mean
Alternative form of if you know what I mean.
Examples
I spent the afternoon musing on Life. If you come to think of it, what a queer thing Life is So unlike anything else, don't you know, if you see what I mean.
You can cry about death and very properly so, your own as well as anybody else's. But it's inevitable, so you'd better grapple with it and cope and be aware that not only is it inevitable, but it has always been inevitable, if you see what I mean.
An author writes a book, and that's the book at that point. And if the author writes the book again, then somehow something has gone wrong, if you see what I mean.
It's nice to be recognized, but it's not great to have it too conspicuously recognized, if you see what I mean. Gold records on the wall, or titles after your name, it's just not something... I don't feel that great about it.
What a queer thing Life is! So unlike anything else, don't you know, if you see what I mean.