Verb
like it or lump it (third-person singular simple present likes it or lumps it, present participle liking it or lumping it, simple past and past participle liked it or lumped it)
(colloquial) To accept a situation whether one agrees with it or not.
We’re going to stay home this year. No holidays. You can like it or lump it.
Women do well in their thirties. They put their bags down and say, 'This is who I am - like it or lump it.' There is a more relaxed quality, which I like. Kelly Reilly
I've realised that I am who I am and that is it. Like it or lump it. I'm not around to please anyone any more, and it's a huge relief. Kristin Scott Thomas