not with it
Meaning
inattentive
incapable of rational thought
Source: en.wiktionary.orgSynonyms
Examples
When everything seems to be going against you, remember that the airplane takes off against the wind, not with it.
Kites rise highest against the wind - not with it.
Mental fight means thinking against the current, not with it. It is our business to puncture gas bags and discover the seeds of truth.
I look through it, and not with it.
I feel like every time I walk into the audition room, they can tell if you're faking it and if your heart's really not with it. So I try to keep it as real as possible.
Virtue would not go far, if a little vanity walked not with it.