pain in the ass
Noun
Meaning
something or someone that causes trouble; a source of unhappiness
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washing dishes was a nuisance before we got a dish washer
a bit of a bother
he's not a friend, he's an infliction
And I hate that, because as much as I like YAML, I often prefer to use XML, and using XML in Ruby is a pain in the ass, so I generally end up using PHP instead.
Furthermore, some smart home products are genuinely a pain in the ass to replace—with hubs being decently high on that list.
I mean, one's a clear "No way," and the other one is, "Well, I think I can not embarrass myself with that or not be a pain in the ass on that set by trying to make it something that it clearly should be or wants to be."