rub it in
Verb
Meaning
rub it in (third-person singular simple present rubs it in, present participle rubbing it in, simple past and past participle rubbed it in)
(informal) To add insult to injury; to emphasize one's strengths or another's weaknesses in a manner that degrades another.
Not to rub it in, but I'm working from home. So I took a swim this morning and have been thoroughly enjoying the beautiful weather.
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Examples
Never give children a chance of imagining that anything exists in isolation. Make it plain from the very beginning that all living is relationship. Show them relationships in the woods, in the fields, in the ponds and streams, in the village and in the country around it. Rub it in.
He broke my heart, and now it's raining, just to rub it in...
I'm a bad loser, but I'm not a good winner either - I like to rub it in people's faces!
It is not good to demonstrate your luxury and your wealth: to rub it in the faces of others is insulting. So you should be modest; try not to insult people by showing that you can do what they cannot.
If you rub it in both at home and abroad that you are ready for instant war.....and intend to be first in and hit your enemy in the belly and kick him when he is down and boil your prisoners in oil (if you take any), and torture his women and children, then people will keep clear of you.
I'm a pretty good winner. I'm a terrible loser. And I rub it in pretty good when I win.