Everything you say should be true, but not everything true should be said. Voltaire
The husband and wife should be similar to the hand and the eye. When the hand hurts, the eyes should be crying. And when the eyes cry, the hand should wipe away the tears. John Chrysostom
At times discretion should be thrown aside, and with the foolish we should play the fool. Menander
The shadow should be the same length as the body. Indonesian Proverb
Your woman should be in the house or in the grave. Somali Proverb
Something done at the wrong time should be regarded as not done. Hindi Proverb