who hurt you
Meaning
who hurt you?
A retort to a person who sounds unexpectedly bitter and defensive.
Examples
Forgiving doesn't make the person who hurt you feel better, it makes you feel better.
You will know that forgiveness has begun when you recall those who hurt you and feel the power to wish them well.
If you betray yourself, you are no different from the people who hurt you. What's the difference between those people who hurt you and what you are doing to yourself?
I think that it's okay to be mad at someone who hurt you. This isn't about, like, the pageantry of trying to seem like nothing affects you.
Appreciate those who love you. Serve those who need you. Forgive those who hurt you. Thank those who help you.
It's easier to forgive those who hurt you than those who hurt the people you love.